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Punch Fear in the Face with No Egrets


the one where a stranger comes into my house and i have to get through it.

another time i thought i might die (but did not)


https://open.spotify.com/episode/2008ayojCZnUP9xYcrrNIF?si=Om2FEfPiS5aNbQaumCpcZQ Living in and traveling through my fair share of interesting places over the last few years, I'm used to waking up due to unexpected reasons. Fireworks and a mariachi band for a birthday at 4am, dog fights, cat fights,... Continue Reading →

part 2 – she is okay!


worth the read. I recently finished a book based on the Harvard Happiness study - the longest ever conducted on human satisfaction*. Problematic, but the pervasive message was that the key to a satisfying life was having sustained relationships. These... Continue Reading →

the 40s chronicles: what to do when . . .


. . . your younger siblings start getting married and/or having babies and you’re single in your 40ies?? You enjoy it. Because you are happy for them and not a petty problem who makes everything about you.  The end! Lol,... Continue Reading →

The Meet-Cute in Mexico


that time i possibly had an age-gap romance in chiapas . . .

The Summer of Confirmation


The author's summer was spent nannying her five-month-old niece, Mazie, offering her a chance to embrace the role of "Super Auntie." Despite initial anxieties about caregiving, she found joy in their time together, highlighting that being an aunt fulfilled her emotional needs without the desire for motherhood. She emphasizes that it’s acceptable for women to choose a life without children, advocating for supportive networks and celebrating non-traditional paths.

a few of my very specific favourite things


she woke up like this at 41. life is and has been and will be hard, so in a concentrated effort to sit and soak in the goodness that is being alive, here are a few of my very specific... Continue Reading →

Happy SAD! – Singles Awareness Day


a fab girls' night out at a tina turner tribute concert! One of my most favorite blogs to write is the somewhat annual February 14 S.A.D. post - that’s right; Singles Awareness Day. For better or for worse, for most... Continue Reading →

flatting. meet cute?! be the one.


my little life This month marks my three and a half year anniversary of living on my own (when you don’t have a partner or kids, you have the mental capacity and also the emotional imperative to notice and celebrate... Continue Reading →

r2HK: Love me, Tinder


Disclaimer: This post was written under the influence of a wine-soaked happy hour with a friend going through a break-up, end of the school year exhaustion, Hong Kong humidity permeating my already scrambled brain, and "Benny and the Jets" on... Continue Reading →

Tried a Little Tinderness . . .


"YAAAAAY MY FAVORITE DAY EVER - February 14th!!! I wish this day was 36 hours long!!!!" said no single girl in the history of American Valentine's Day. Which I looked up. This day was started a while ago. It sucked... Continue Reading →

Single Challenge


You may have seen these Facebook "challenges" circulating - people 'daring' each other to celebrate their spouses or their children, then tag other people. It's a subtle way to validate what most people are already doing; posting really cute pictures and adorable... Continue Reading →

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